Venting today.
It fries me when people do not return communication. No reason, neglect plain and simple.
Since when is it acceptable to say you are going to do something, not do it, not bother to get in touch to inform someone of your (change of) plans and then let is languish? Rather, let the other person or party involved languish...wonder...wait...get frustrated.
Answer: Never.
Recently I've had that experience (again) with a relatively large organization. They started off really well.
Enthusiasm, meeting more people in the organization. Some of them even attending some of my events. Great!
Then, ball dropped. Apparently into an abyss.
What gives?
Solution for me? I plan to go straight to the top, which is where the relationship started anyway. That top person was the first person I met and I feel comfortable doing so. Also - if it were my business, you'd bet your sweet bippy I'd want to know.
Being busy is a tired excuse and unacceptable. We're all busy.
I've given plenty of opportunity (phone calls, emails, in person) for these others folks to do right by communicating professionally, and in a timely manner.
If nothing else you get back in touch and say, "Hey, I'm swamped/no longer interested/whatever" so the other party waiting knows what the heck is going on.
Like I used to tell my students, Good Manners Are Always In style.
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